So how many times have you survived a break up, without being sad? None! That’s a human tendency, we all are a package of emotions and stupidities. But leaving all that aside, what do we learn from an experience we just had? Do we actually apply all of those heavy statements we gave when we were in rage, back then? Well, not really. But the best thing is that we learn to become stable in our life. More than anything, no matter what so ever happens, how many heartbreaks or rejections we face, we become stable day by day. Being stable is not related to becoming mature. When a person is called mature, it could be related to the face or age or maybe his thought process. But being stable is when, the same person understands the value of his own life and starts giving up on things which were then troubling.
You know, life is more than just break-ups or patch-ups, its more of a give and take than just give and get nothing. Some people spend their lives in such traumas, and others simply rise up. And these petty things will keep on following us forever, but does that mean we give up on being happy?
Not every person is same, so even we are also not supposed to expect things out of them. Our work is till feeling satisfied with our inner self than making the other person feel that way, even before we do.
Think about yourself before doing a charity.